Companion Handshake

Stop starting from a blank box.

Build the context your AI needs to actually help you. Create an editable Companion Handshake your AI can use to understand how to help you write, think, revise, decide, and return to the work.

Cartoon portrait of Jim Leyshon

I built this because generic AI kept treating real work like a generic request.

I needed AI to stop flattening voice, rushing to giant plans, and acting helpful before it understood the assignment. I needed a companion that could receive the work, reflect what it heard, ask better questions, and help me return without starting over every time.

That is the point of this room. You are not here to get a prompt. You are here to teach AI how to stop treating you like a stranger.

Most people ask AI for help before AI knows enough to help them.

That is why the answers feel generic, rushed, too cheerful, too broad, or weirdly confident about things AI should not assume. My Writing Companion slows the first move down just enough to make every move after it better.

Bring the work

Start with the real thing: a draft, exhibit, lesson, offer, script, essay, messy idea, or project that needs better help.

Approve the context

The companion summarizes what it heard and asks whether that is close enough to carry forward. It does not confidently misunderstand you.

Leave with leverage

Your Companion Handshake gives another AI your role, standards, useful help, bad-help warnings, return handles, constraints, and next honest action.

Start with the work. Leave with a working draft.

The full Handshake tool asks a few guided questions and gives you a portable, editable artifact you can copy into the AI you already use. This preview shows the rule: AI should hear the work before it starts giving advice.

Bring the work

Tell me what you are working on, even if it is messy. One honest paragraph is enough.

The first question is simple on purpose. The next question should change after the Companion hears what you brought.

Write naturally. One honest paragraph is enough. Or roll a random example to see how the Companion responds.

A messy creative answer should not get a generic productivity question.

If you bring a strange screenplay idea, too many branches, and a need for one usable scene, the Companion should lower the unit and protect the mystery. That is the difference between a questionnaire and a working companion.

Generic response

What keeps getting in the way?

That may be useful later, but it does not show that AI heard the forest, the screenplay, or the need for a first scene.

Better companion response

If this became one small finished thing this week, what scene, page, or beat would someone be able to read and respond to?

What you should feel

It felt like the next question was for my project, not for a generic user.

This is a working draft. You can edit anything.

The Handshake is not a verdict, a personality test, or a locked profile. It is a jump start. Review it, cut what feels wrong, rename things, sharpen the language, and make it yours.

1. Your Work

What are you making, managing, or improving?

2. Your Role

Who are you when you do this work?

3. Your Materials

What should AI trust, cite, preserve, or avoid inventing?

What you should leave with

  • A clearer description of your work.
  • A better sense of who you are in the work.
  • Useful-help instructions and bad-help warnings.
  • Source, material, and voice guardrails.
  • Questions to ask your AI companion before you trust its answer.
  • One next honest action.

$50 Working Session

Bring one stuck place. In 30 minutes, we’ll work on one practical issue with your AI setup, writing project, simple website, domain, launch path, or next step.

This is not unlimited tech support. It is a focused working session: one session, one stuck place, one next move.

Before we meet, you will answer a short intake so the 30-minute clock starts with the stuck place already visible. Please do not send passwords, payment details, private account access, or anything you would not want reviewed for this session.

This is not permanent tech support. If the issue needs more time, we will name the next step clearly instead of pretending everything fits into 30 minutes.

Before we meet, answer these

  1. What do you need help with?
  2. What is the one thing you want working by the end?
  3. What have you already tried?
  4. What tools, accounts, or platforms are involved?
  5. What are you trying to make, publish, fix, or understand?
  6. What is the current state?
  7. What links or files should I look at?
  8. What is confusing you most right now?
  9. What should I avoid doing in the session?
  10. What kind of help works best for you?
  11. This session will be worth it if I leave with...
  12. Anything else I should know?

Your work changes. Your AI should change with it.

Ask your AI what happened this week. Bring the summary back. We will help you see what changed, refine your Handshake, and return to the work with better instructions.

Weekly Mirror prompt

Copy this into the AI you already use:

Give me a weekly summary of our work together.

Focus on:
1. What I worked on
2. What progress I made
3. Where I got stuck or scattered
4. What kind of help from you worked best
5. What kind of help wasted my time
6. What you learned about my voice, process, standards, and constraints
7. What should be updated in my Companion Handshake
8. My next honest action

Bring evidence. Get a better process. Return to the work.

Your Companion Handshake belongs to you.

This tool is designed to help you create and copy your own working context. If you choose to share your answers or request a review, we may use anonymized patterns to improve the questions and teaching material.

We do not need to know who you are to learn what helps people work better with AI.

Want to keep going?

The class is where we work on voice, standards, memory, examples, revision, review questions, and the practice of returning to the work without starting from zero every time.

The point is not to live inside the program. The point is to leave better equipped.

Know the work. Know your standards. Know yourself in the work. Then go build the thing.